"My friend told me a story he hadn’t told anyone for years.
When he used to tell it years ago people would laugh and say, ‘Who’d
believe that? How can that be true? That’s daft.’ So he didn’t tell it
again for ages. But for some reason, last night, he knew it would be
just the kind of story I would love.
When he was a kid, he said, they didn’t use the word autism, they just
said ‘shy’, or ‘isn’t very good at being around strangers or lots of
people.’ But that’s what he was, and is, and he doesn’t mind telling
anyone. It’s just a matter of fact with him, and sometimes it makes him
sound a little and act different, but that’s okay.
Anyway, when he was a kid it was the middle of the 1980s and they were
still saying ‘shy’ or ‘withdrawn’ rather than ‘autistic’. He went to
London with his mother to see a special screening of a new film he
really loved. He must have won a competition or something, I think. Some
of the details he can’t quite remember, but he thinks it must have been
London they went to, and the film…! Well, the film is one of my
all-time favourites, too. It’s a dark, mysterious fantasy movie. Every
single frame is crammed with puppets and goblins. There are silly songs
and a goblin king who wears clingy silver tights and who kidnaps a baby
and this is what kickstarts the whole adventure.
It was ‘Labyrinth’, of course, and the star was David Bowie, and he was
there to meet the children who had come to see this special screening.
‘I met David Bowie once,’ was the thing that my friend said, that caught my attention.
‘You did? When was this?’ I was amazed, and surprised, too, at the
casual way he brought this revelation out. Almost anyone else I know
would have told the tale a million times already.
He seemed surprised I would want to know, and he told me the whole thing, all out of order, and I eked the details out of him.
He told the story as if it was he’d been on an adventure back then, and
he wasn’t quite allowed to tell the story. Like there was a pact, or a
magic spell surrounding it. As if something profound and peculiar would
occur if he broke the confidence.
It was thirty years ago and all us kids who’d loved Labyrinth then, and
who still love it now, are all middle-aged. Saddest of all, the Goblin
King is dead. Does the magic still exist?
I asked him what happened on his adventure.
‘I was withdrawn, more withdrawn than the other kids. We all got a
signed poster. Because I was so shy, they put me in a separate room, to
one side, and so I got to meet him alone. He’d heard I was shy and it
was his idea. He spent thirty minutes with me.
‘He gave me this mask. This one. Look.
‘He said: ‘This is an invisible mask, you see?
‘He took it off his own face and looked around like he was scared and
uncomfortable all of a sudden. He passed me his invisible mask. ‘Put it
on,’ he told me. ‘It’s magic.’
‘And so I did.
‘Then he told me, ‘I always feel afraid, just the same as you. But I
wear this mask every single day. And it doesn’t take the fear away, but
it makes it feel a bit better. I feel brave enough then to face the
whole world and all the people. And now you will, too.
‘I sat there in his magic mask, looking through the eyes at David Bowie and it was true, I did feel better.
‘Then I watched as he made another magic mask. He spun it out of thin
air, out of nothing at all. He finished it and smiled and then he put it
on. And he looked so relieved and pleased. He smiled at me.
‘'Now we’ve both got invisible masks. We can both see through them
perfectly well and no one would know we’re even wearing them,’ he said.
‘So, I felt incredibly comfortable. It was the first time I felt safe in my whole life.
‘It was magic. He was a wizard. He was a goblin king, grinning at me.
‘I still keep the mask, of course. This is it, now. Look.’
I kept asking my friend questions, amazed by his story. I loved it and
wanted all the details. How many other kids? Did they have puppets from
the film there, as well? What was David Bowie wearing? I imagined him in
his lilac suit from Live Aid. Or maybe he was dressed as the Goblin
King in lacy ruffles and cobwebs and glitter.
What was the last thing he said to you, when you had to say goodbye?
‘David Bowie said, ‘I’m always afraid as well. But this is how you can
feel brave in the world.’ And then it was over. I’ve never forgotten it.
And years later I cried when I heard he had passed.’
My friend was surprised I was delighted by this tale.
‘The normal reaction is: that’s just a stupid story. Fancy believing in an invisible mask.’
But I do. I really believe in it.
And it’s the best story I’ve heard all year."
-Paul Magrs
